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<!--Generated by Squarespace V5 Site Server v5.13.159 (http://www.squarespace.com) on Fri, 24 May 2013 00:35:28 GMT--><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><title>Recovering Firecracker</title><subtitle>Blog</subtitle><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/</id><link rel="alternate" type="application/xhtml+xml" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/"/><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/atom.xml"/><updated>2011-03-23T19:13:19Z</updated><generator uri="http://five.squarespace.com/" version="Squarespace V5 Site Server v5.13.159 (http://www.squarespace.com)">Squarespace</generator><entry><title>Guess What?</title><category term="personal"/><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/3/23/guess-what.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/3/23/guess-what.html"/><author><name>Trude</name></author><published>2011-03-23T19:13:19Z</published><updated>2011-03-23T19:13:19Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>So guess what you guys? It turns out it's REALLY hard to maintain two blogs, plus a day job and a photography business. As much as I'm so emotionally vested in this blog that has basically been my virtual diary for almost three years, it just makes sense to do everything over on the <a href="http://ellingsenphotoblog.com/" target="_blank">Ellingsen Photography Blog</a>. Especially since that one is as much about my photography as it is about my personal life and, well, everything I've talked about on this blog. :)</p>
<p>Thank you to all those who have already joined me over there, and if you haven't already, you can add it to whatever blog reader you use by <a href="http://ellingsenphotoblog.com/feed/" target="_blank">clicking here</a>.</p>
<p>I'll still keep this space up, because the historian in me won't let me lose all of this, but there won't be any new posts in the foreseeable future.</p>
<p>Much love to all of you who have been regular commenters and readers here!</p>
<p>xoxoxoxo</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Happy International Women's Day!</title><category term="family"/><category term="international women's day"/><category term="personal"/><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/3/8/happy-international-womens-day.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/3/8/happy-international-womens-day.html"/><author><name>Trude</name></author><published>2011-03-09T01:53:46Z</published><updated>2011-03-09T01:53:46Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5002/5261255946_62302e835b_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1299621292712" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>Over on the <a href="http://ellingsenphotoblog.com/happy-international-womens-day/" target="_blank">Ellingsen Photography blog</a>, I'm paying homage to the amazing women I grew up around in honor of International Women's Day! Who was a big influence on you?</p>
<p>xo</p>
<p>P.S. How do you like the new blog header? :)</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>I'm Famoose!</title><category term="fashion"/><category term="personal"/><category term="photography"/><category term="portraits"/><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/3/3/im-famoose.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/3/3/im-famoose.html"/><author><name>Trude</name></author><published>2011-03-04T01:23:49Z</published><updated>2011-03-04T01:23:49Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://ellingsenphotoblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/About-Me-Photos.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1299175326948" alt="" width="640" height="426" /></span></span></p>
<p>Nancy has <a href="http://www.nancyorozcoblog.com/2011/03/02/fullerton-portrait-photographer-trude-of-ellingsen-photo/" target="_blank">blogged the photos</a> she took of me for my website - I'm in love! Absolutely in <strong>love</strong>. I'm so grateful for her! I think my favorite is the last one in the post. :)</p>
<p>For the shoot I wore the <a href="http://www.modcloth.com/Womens/Dresses/-Welcoming-Wave-Dress" target="_blank">Welcoming Wave Dress</a> from Modcloth, sweater tights from Target, a belt I got at Macys ages ago, and boots I found on the sale rack at DSW two years ago. The necklace is made from costume jewelry we inherited from my grandmother and the amber ring was hers as well.</p>
<p>xo</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>What Mindy Wore</title><category term="fashion"/><category term="inspiration"/><category term="inspiration"/><category term="personal"/><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/3/1/what-mindy-wore.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/3/1/what-mindy-wore.html"/><author><name>Trude</name></author><published>2011-03-02T02:06:29Z</published><updated>2011-03-02T02:06:29Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5057/5489591611_7695a85a7e_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1299017136305" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>Head on over to the <a href="http://ellingsenphotoblog.com/what-mindy-wore-oscar-party/" target="_blank">new blog</a> to see the first post in my new blog series, What Mindy Wore! :)</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Happy Friday!</title><category term="music"/><category term="oscars"/><category term="richard cheese"/><category term="sbacc"/><category term="weekend"/><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/25/happy-friday.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/25/happy-friday.html"/><author><name>Trude</name></author><published>2011-02-25T20:23:28Z</published><updated>2011-02-25T20:23:28Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5300/5476152537_cb1db1ba49_o.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1298660352532" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>Happy Friday everybody! I&rsquo;m so excited and thankful for all the love and encouragement I&rsquo;ve received this week, now that <a href="http://ellingsenphoto.com/">Ellingsen Photography</a> is officially open for business! You guys are awesome, for reals.</p>
<p>It&rsquo;s looking to be a busy weekend for me &ndash; tonight my friends and I are heading out to see <a href="http://www.richardcheese.com/rchome.html">Richard Cheese</a>,  who never fails to disappoint. If you haven&rsquo;t heard of him before, go  check him out now! Soooo fun. Hopefully the rain isn&rsquo;t too bad &ndash; as  evidenced above, so far this morning it&rsquo;s been pretty, but the forecast  doesn&rsquo;t look good. At least it&rsquo;s not snow, right? :)</p>
<p>I&rsquo;m downsizing my storage unit tomorrow (luckily the new one is practically right next to the old one), heading to the <a href="http://sbacc.org/">shelter</a> Sunday to catch up on their new adoptables and then hosting a wee Oscar viewing party Sunday night.</p>
<p>What do you guys have planned? Anything fun?</p>
<p>xo</p>
<p><em>﻿{Cross-posted on the <a href="http://ellingsenphotoblog.com/happy-friday/" target="_blank">new blog</a>.}</em></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Ellingsen Photography is ALIVE!</title><category term="ellingsen photography"/><category term="photography"/><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/23/ellingsen-photography-is-alive.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/23/ellingsen-photography-is-alive.html"/><author><name>Trude</name></author><published>2011-02-24T02:22:14Z</published><updated>2011-02-24T02:22:14Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>I'm super duper thrilled to announce that what I hinted at before has now finally come to fruition!! <a href="http://ellingsenphoto.com/" target="_blank">Ellingsen Photography</a> is now live and open for business!</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5257/5471654806_2f6f8f2f95_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1298481834195" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>You can find me there and also on the purty new <a href="http://ellingsenphotoblog.com/" target="_blank">Ellingsen Photography Blog</a>.</p>
<p>I haven't yet decided whether to keep both blogs going or to migrate to the new one, since I'd be posting a lot of the same content to both anyways. It's so hard to give up this baby that I've been keeping up for so long! But to help with my sanity, I might have to go with just one.</p>
<p>What do you guys think? One blog or two? Would you migrate with me? Any feedback is greatly appreciated!</p>
<p>Now I think I'll go have a drink and take a nap. :)</p>
<p>xoxoxo</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>NYFW</title><category term="fashion"/><category term="inspiration"/><category term="nyfw"/><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/22/nyfw.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/22/nyfw.html"/><author><name>Trude</name></author><published>2011-02-23T01:59:27Z</published><updated>2011-02-23T01:59:27Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>I don't consider myself a major fashionista in the slightest, but I've been reading Vogue and Vanity Fair for years and still love seeing the gorgeous creations that come out of New York Fashion Week (and of course London, Paris, Milan, etc.). Couple that with the fact that the most recent fashion week was for fall, my <em>favorite</em> season, and I just had to share some of the ready-to-wear eye candy that I've been drooling over!</p>
<p>{All photos courtesy of Style.com}</p>
<p><a href="http://www.style.com/fashionshows/review/F2011RTW-ANNASUI/" target="_blank">Anna Sui</a> - oh the colors, and the glasses!</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a209/trudeme/mosaicAnnaSui.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1298415396327" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.style.com/fashionshows/review/F2011RTW-JLSTUART/" target="_blank">Jill Stuart</a> - you can't help but love the paint-by-numbers foxes and owls!</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a209/trudeme/mosaicJillStuart.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1298415431085" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.style.com/fashionshows/review/F2011RTW-VTAM/" target="_blank">Vivienne Tam</a> - the girls all looked cozy and warm while still being sexy. The structured coats were gorgeous. And those BOOTS!</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a209/trudeme/mosaicVivenneTam.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1298415449390" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.style.com/fashionshows/review/F2011RTW-JASONWU/" target="_blank">Jason Wu</a> - the models look kinda scary, but the shapes super pretty and I love the ankle length cigarette pants.</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a209/trudeme/mosaicaJasonWu.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1298415470456" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.style.com/fashionshows/review/F2011RTW-PGURUNG/" target="_blank">Prabal Gurung</a> - so glam and kinda Femme Fatale while still being feminine.</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a209/trudeme/mosaicPrabalGurung.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1298415514595" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.style.com/fashionshows/review/F2011RTW-MIZRAHI/" target="_blank">Isaac Mizrahi</a> - I will always love him. I mean, really - dyed poodles and cakes on the runway! How do you not love? And can someone please bring back his talk show? I miss it.</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a209/trudeme/mosaicIsaacMizrahi.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1298415529077" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.style.com/fashionshows/review/F2011RTW-DKNY/" target="_blank">DKNY</a> - The sheer wearability is what always makes her awesome. And I love the idea of fall-ish neons.</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a209/trudeme/mosaicDKNY.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1298415548668" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>What do you guys think? Any look you particularly love?</p>
<p>xo</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>OH HAI!</title><category term="dogs"/><category term="pets"/><category term="photography"/><category term="rhodesian ridgeback"/><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/16/oh-hai.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/16/oh-hai.html"/><author><name>Trude</name></author><published>2011-02-17T02:54:43Z</published><updated>2011-02-17T02:54:43Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>...is what Anja would like to say. :)</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5218/5445734842_fbbf0c8d3b_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1297878785846" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>And two minutes later, she was like:</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5179/5445733736_1c1c6f7ed5_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1297878861532" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>"Why can't I go play now, dad?" (Lars was standing just behind me.)</p>
<p>Doesn't it look like we're punishing her? Puppies crack me up.</p>
<p>xo</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Ready to Pop</title><category term="flowers"/><category term="jasmine"/><category term="personal"/><category term="photography"/><category term="photography"/><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/15/ready-to-pop.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/15/ready-to-pop.html"/><author><name>Trude</name></author><published>2011-02-16T02:21:10Z</published><updated>2011-02-16T02:21:10Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5256/5445734992_d96f068d12_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1297814366971" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>Much like the overabundant jasmine in our backyard, I, too, am ready to pop! Photographically speaking, that is. :)</p>
<p>My baby, my website that I&rsquo;ve been working on for weeks, is just  about ready to launch! I can&rsquo;t WAIT to share it with you guys! I&rsquo;ll  succumb to clich&eacute;s and call it (and the accompanying blog) a labor of love, because  although they have required serious brain power and manhours, I&rsquo;ve been  nothing but excited and happy while working on them.</p>
<p>Also, I'm soooo happy it's still light out when I get home. Is it daylight savings yet? Because at this point I'm seriously missing the long golden afternoons. Lately I've just wanted to sleep when I get home.</p>
<p>What about you guys? What&rsquo;s been your labor of love lately?</p>
<p>xo</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Their Story</title><category term="engagement"/><category term="family"/><category term="love"/><category term="memories"/><id>http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/14/their-story.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/2011/2/14/their-story.html"/><author><name>Trude</name></author><published>2011-02-15T02:47:05Z</published><updated>2011-02-15T02:47:05Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>{The latest installment in my <a href="http://recoveringfirecracker.squarespace.com/blog/category/memories">Memories series</a>}<strong> </strong></p>
<p>Happy Valentine's Day! I'm not a big fan of the "holiday", but because I couldn't hold off posting my parent's love story any longer, I thought today would be the perfect day to share. :)<strong><br /></strong></p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5250/5261257430_d26dbdf669_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1295912806802" alt="" /></span></p>
<p>So, to begin at the beginning: my dad is a native Norwegian. My mom is American. My mom's family moved to his hometown just outside <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stavanger" target="_blank">Stavanger</a> in early 1969 because of my grandfather's job (he was a lifelong international rep for <a href="http://www.pw.utc.com/vgn-ext-templating/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=c3ca34890cb06110VgnVCM1000004601000aRCRD" target="_blank">Pratt &amp; Whitney</a>, a company my uncle and aunt both went on to work for). My dad became good friends with my uncle, Karl, and spent a lot of time at the family's house because of it. Like Karl's fifteenth birthday, for example:</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5248/5367852365_a385a43d06_o.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1295391070572" alt="" /></span></p>
<p><em>(Don't you just love dad's bitchin' frilly shirt? He looks so much like Lars does <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/trudem/2530828367/in/set-72157600090183928/" target="_blank">in this picture</a>, it's scary. That's my mom on the left.)</em></p>
<p>My dad was one of the coolest kids in school - he rode a motorcycle, threw parties, dated as many girls as possible and charmed all his teachers while doing so.</p>
<p>A year later the family moved back to the States, but not before my mom told my dad, <strong>"Wait for me to grow up so we can get married, okay?"</strong></p>
<p>She was ten, my dad was sixteen.</p>
<p>And true to 16-year-old manhood, he said, "Yeah, sure, kid."</p>
<p><em>Ten years later...</em></p>
<p>It's now January 1980. My dad and uncle have stayed really good friends despite living on different continents, and now that my uncle is getting married my dad has flown to <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Bombay</span> Mumbai to be his best man (Karl's first wife is half Indian, half English).</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5005/5368462884_1b8415d871_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1295394072244" alt="" /></span></p>
<p>My mom and grandmother fly in from Connecticut and my dad goes with Karl to pick them up. The way he tells it, when he saw his best friend's baby sister for the first time in many years, "That was pretty much it for me." You know it's love when someone falls for you after you've been traveling for 18 hours, right?</p>
<p>Which makes these photos they took of each other while they were still in Bombay all the more meaningful:</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5048/5367853635_ce267371a5_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1295394488470" alt="" /></span></p>
<p>From there on out, dad courted mom relentlessly. Long distance calls (a big deal in those days!), visits, flowers, etc. He was certain he'd found The One. My mom wasn't sure yet - she was only 21, and she'd have to move to Norway because my dad had a great job with Mobil Oil, which would mean giving up riding and training her beloved Arabian horses:</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5286/5368462614_a440a16aaf_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1295394875460" alt="" /></span></p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5044/5367852283_c8e91106ce_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1295394905174" alt="" /></span></p>
<p>But how could she resist this face?</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5202/5367853503_061106d927_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1295394951828" alt="" /></span></p>
<p>They spent more and more time together though...</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5206/5368463718_238824a5cc_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1295395010228" alt="" /></span></p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5283/5367852991_e938f785b9_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1295395237831" alt="" /></span></p>
<p>And by November that same year, she had long since caved and they were engaged!</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5009/5367852751_45198a882e_z.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1295395275999" alt="" /></span></p>
<p>They were married in 1981. On April 25 they'll be celebrating <strong>thirty years</strong> together. I'm so thankful for their amazing example of a beautiful and hard-working marriage. Happy almost-anniversary!!</p>
<p>But seriously, who gets to marry their childhood crush?</p>
<p>xo</p>]]></content></entry></feed>